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Old 09-27-2017, 08:24 PM
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Can't Choose Between 2 Women

I know I probably won't get a ton of good advice here, if any, but have to give it a shot. Feel free to joke around. If I get even one line if good advice it may be worth it. Not posting pics.

I've been with one woman for 12 years. We spend a lot of time together since I work from home and she doesn't work. We fight very rarely. We don't have a lot of the same interests, but we meet halfway on some. She learned about football and actually gets excited to watch the games with me. She's pretty, and gets a fair amount of attention from guys, but lacks some self-confidence and independence, which I've tried to help with in the past. Over the past year we started trying to have kids. I never really wanted them, but wanted to make her happy initially. We were not succesful, even with some help from doctors. And towards the end sex became like a chore. I was working 60 hours a week including all-nighters, so that may have caused some mental instability.

A year ago I met a woman on a business trip. Gradually we became more acquainted online and really hit it off. We both feel a connection with each other like nothing before. It's not all physical. I'm attracted to her intellect and independence. She seems like a good person. And the physical connection is more than any woman before. We can't get enough of each other. Multiple times a day for the past 2 months. But she's also got mental issues.. anxiety and depression. And she has 3 kids, which are "mixed". She's white, I'm white, but she's never been with a white guy before. Came here as a refugee from europe 20 years ago, and grew up with mostly black people here. It's not just a fling or new thing for her, she has done a lot of things to show she is serious about a future with me. Her past and independence also intimidate me and make me jealous when I'm not used thinking that way. She get's A Lot of attention from guys. And I didn't want to be a dad. As far as comparing the relationship to the other, with the new woman, the good times seem better, but the bad times seem worse.

Anyway, here I am. Not sure what to do next. I care, even love as far as I know, both of them. They are really the only people in my personal life, which is my fault. But I know I have to make a decision. What would you do?
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Old 09-27-2017, 08:38 PM
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Old 09-27-2017, 08:39 PM
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1. We need pics of both

2. Run away from #2 female
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Old 09-27-2017, 08:44 PM
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Old 09-27-2017, 08:50 PM
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Easy one.....keep seeing woman 1.....keep seeing woman 2 as well, until the sex dries up.

If woman 1 finds out about woman 2 and things end, its no biggie she not that good a catch anyway.
Plenty more fish in the sea.
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Old 09-27-2017, 08:58 PM
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The answer was staring us right in the face.

Get the 2nd one in a "family way".

Immediately take the baby and raise it with woman #1.
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Mental issues and 3 kids?

#1 is the EASY choice. The 3 kids (That are not yours) will always be a headache for you and the mental issues are a serious red flag. You had your fun, now go back to the 1st one and rekindle the fire. Great sex doesn't mean nothing. Once reality sets in with that situation, it will not be fun anymore either. Stick with what you know and ditch the HO!
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Old 09-27-2017, 09:01 PM
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Easy one.....keep seeing woman 1.....keep seeing woman 2 as well, until the sex dries up.

If woman 1 finds out about woman 2 and things end, its no biggie she not that good a catch anyway.
Plenty more fish in the sea.
LOL at editting.

Almost like you needed extra time to consult with Dr. Phil for additional advice.

LOL
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Old 09-27-2017, 09:03 PM
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LOL at editting.

Almost like you needed extra time to consult with Dr. Phil for additional advice.

LOL
Nahh i just thought about it for another 20 seconds
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Nahh i just thought about it for another 20 seconds
But still LOL for continuing to solve the problem.
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Old 09-27-2017, 09:06 PM
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1. We need pics of both

2. Run away from #2 female

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Old 09-27-2017, 09:08 PM
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What's wrong with my advice ?

Take the baby and give it to #1 as an Xmas/Valentine's gift.
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Old 09-27-2017, 09:08 PM
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But still LOL for continuing to solve the problem.
Im pleased your laughing, its very good for u.

I laughed today too, watched a cleveland browns game.
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Old 09-27-2017, 09:09 PM
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#2 probably gave a sexual experience you haven't endured yet. All the crazy chicks are great in the sack, but it will get very old quick. Ride it till you can't ride it anymore. Make sure you wrap that puppy up or you'll be in hell.
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Old 09-27-2017, 11:35 PM
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Flip answer is to look for 3rd option.
Case against #1.... forget about having a kid that you don't particularly want. Plus, if you've been w/her for 12yrs and have this question, could be time to move on.

Case against #2.... too many kids that aren't yours. All same father or different fathers that will surface in your life? Crazy chick would have to be pretty damn amazing to deal w/all of her baggage. Chances are that further on down the road little Willy will probably be wanting something new again... then it's back to square one. Would you be ok w/o either of them! Don't throw the baby out w/the bath.

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You have planted an uncertainty tree. Chop it down

Then run like a scalded dog from #2
She met you on a business trip? You and who else
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Old 09-28-2017, 05:54 AM
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She met you on a business trip? You and who else

Probably Big Pimpin.
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The answer was staring us right in the face.

Get the 2nd one in a "family way".

Immediately take the baby and raise it with woman #1.
We have a winner!
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