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Old 09-28-2017, 08:53 AM
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Thanks for all the replies. All good stuff. Even the less serious ones. #2 is amazing, and she hasn't done this before. She was married to the father if her children. They are ages 6-12. I've been monogamous for the last relationship, not just looking for something new. And she has not been slutting it up either. Sometimes you can tell these things. Another aspect, I always wanted to start a business, and she supports me in that more so than #1. Also she is very bright, smartest woman I've met, so possibly a business partner. Just the weirdness, mood swings, kids, making it hard to decide if it's worth it long term.

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Haha. Pick 2...you'll regret it guaranteed.

Where are the pics?
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Old 09-28-2017, 11:39 AM
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Thanks for all the replies. All good stuff. Even the less serious ones. #2 is amazing, and she hasn't done this before. She was married to the father if her children. They are ages 6-12. I've been monogamous for the last relationship, not just looking for something new. And she has not been slutting it up either. Sometimes you can tell these things. Another aspect, I always wanted to start a business, and she supports me in that more so than #1. Also she is very bright, smartest woman I've met, so possibly a business partner. Just the weirdness, mood swings, kids, making it hard to decide if it's worth it long term.

Anyway, thanks guys.
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The best of luck on Bachelorette #2. However, I think you summed her up in one sentence and that sentence was; Just the weirdness, mood swings, kids, making it hard to decide if it's worth it long term.

My advice...hide your rabbits, dogs, parrots, turtles and knives. Mood swings = check please.

Next month is my 25 year anniversary. I'm happily married and I thank God for the incredible partner I've been with for 27 years. Not only that, I'm also thankful that I no longer have to choose between this woman or that woman. If #1 has been with you through thick and thin for the past 12 years that you have been together, IMHO, stay loyal to that woman, she sounds like she's a great gal. Regarding kids, what's wrong with adopting one or two kids?

In any case, the best of luck. Love is a beautiful thing but having some one who's been faithful, trustworthy and a great person that you have fun with is also very important. Obviously, it's you that has to make that tough decision and go with what your heart tells you to.

All the best!

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Old 09-28-2017, 12:25 PM
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She's been with a brotha so at some point she may again need more from this relationship than you have to give. JS.
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Old 09-28-2017, 01:09 PM
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You have planted an uncertainty tree. Chop it down

Then run like a scalded dog from #2
She met you on a business trip? You and who else
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she's been with a brotha so at some point she may again need more from this relationship than you have to give. Js.

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Old 09-28-2017, 03:55 PM
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Go with #2... Have great sex for 2-3 yrs, before you get tired of her shit and go back to #1.
Run an ad "Looking for a business partner. Must have.... "Just the weirdness, mood swings, kids, making it hard to decide if it's worth it long term". Lean forward so I can slap you.

And, here's what I know about 3 way relationships... Someone ALWAYS gets hurt... Don't let it be you. So, which one of the babes are you going to hurt? And, do you want to drag the kids into it?

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Old 09-28-2017, 04:17 PM
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Old 09-28-2017, 05:13 PM
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Mental issues and 3 kids?

#1 is the EASY choice. The 3 kids (That are not yours) will always be a headache for you and the mental issues are a serious red flag. You had your fun, now go back to the 1st one and rekindle the fire. Great sex doesn't mean nothing. Once reality sets in with that situation, it will not be fun anymore either. Stick with what you know and ditch the HO!
Couldn't have said it better myself... #2 Has serious baggage. Put that extra energy into making #1 feel like you once did.
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Old 09-28-2017, 07:46 PM
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mark12 - haha, this may be a surprise, but she's been with 4 "brothers", and she's telling all her friends I'm the best she's had (I've seen the texts, though she's not aware), she is actually the one initiating things 80% of the time.
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Old 09-28-2017, 08:22 PM
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Steer clear of #2.

She's had three sexually-transmitted pregnancies.
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Old 09-28-2017, 08:45 PM
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What happens when this future business partner has a negative mood swing? Your business gets screwed. And, if she is so smart, you're the one that will get screwed over the most when the business starts to become negatively impacted because of your moody relationship.

Many men would be jealous of you and your relationship with #1.
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Old 09-28-2017, 08:58 PM
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mark12 - haha, this may be a surprise, but she's been with 4 "brothers", and she's telling all her friends I'm the best she's had (I've seen the texts, though she's not aware), she is actually the one initiating things 80% of the time.
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Old 09-28-2017, 09:26 PM
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Either you got a big dick or NOTE...Your ole lady doesn't work and you support her and new one has 3 kids and probably looking for support....your choice but taking on 3 kids that our not yours is a BIG deal!!!!Been there done that.........Long gone gone.....Bad Co. song but Im happy!!!
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Old 09-28-2017, 09:38 PM
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Old 09-28-2017, 09:41 PM
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In all seriousness sounds like a fling committing to 3 kids when you don't even want to parent sounds like a stretch. As someone mentioned spare the kids. Fuck her than surprise her with an uber next morning
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Checked your limited bio... my guess is. You have the dreaded young man syndrome. You let the little head do the thinkin' for the big head. You're trying to justify going w/the hot sex, shiny new thing and are looking for support to justify going against the grain! Am I close? Men here, have been there and done that junior. They have broken hearts and have had their hearts broken.

One qualifier is: it looks like you have been w/#1 since you were 21 yrs old! Yep, very natural to wonder if you really want to hitch your wagon to that one w/o checking around a little. Like I told my own son, you can do a catch and release. But then again, you might spend the rest of your life looking for what you already had.
Life is a series of choices, choose wisely my young friend! gl
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Old 10-05-2017, 02:26 PM
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The best of luck on Bachelorette #2. However, I think you summed her up in one sentence and that sentence was; Just the weirdness, mood swings, kids, making it hard to decide if it's worth it long term.

My advice...hide your rabbits, dogs, parrots, turtles and knives. Mood swings = check please.

Next month is my 25 year anniversary. I'm happily married and I thank God for the incredible partner I've been with for 27 years. Not only that, I'm also thankful that I no longer have to choose between this woman or that woman. If #1 has been with you through thick and thin for the past 12 years that you have been together, IMHO, stay loyal to that woman, she sounds like she's a great gal. Regarding kids, what's wrong with adopting one or two kids?

In any case, the best of luck. Love is a beautiful thing but having some one who's been faithful, trustworthy and a great person that you have fun with is also very important. Obviously, it's you that has to make that tough decision and go with what your heart tells you to.

All the best!

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Old 10-05-2017, 06:59 PM
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Solid advice from the mall as usual.

My 2 cents.

1. Never mix pussy and money. It’s just plain bad. If something goes wrong you’re fucked both ways.

2. Never plan a future with a crazy bitch. The pussy might be good and she’ll fuck your brains out, but in time she’ll drive your crazy.

3. Never have kids or try to have kids if you don’t want them.

Bottom line here is fuck #2 a few more times to get it out of your system. Go back to #1 and tell her how you feel. If you can’t work it out in 3 months, hit the road. Life is too short to be stuck.
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Old 10-06-2017, 08:39 PM
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Still no pics. Clearly bullshit
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Old 10-07-2017, 02:01 PM
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Old 10-18-2017, 08:44 AM
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Update: I moved in with #2 on a trial basis 2 weeks ago. We both work from home, so we've been together every minute. Kids keep to themselves so no risk of attachment thus far - really don't want to hurt them. Weirdest thing, she's calmed down completely. Possibly her mood swings were almost entirely related to caring about me but being unsure if I was serious about her. So, now I really have no complaints about her. The situation with the kids isn't really optimal, but somehow I find myself thinking it could be worth the trouble. And we are still having sex 2-3 times every day, which is far out of the ordinary for both of us. I've mentioned my low sex drive here before, and I've seen her medical history where she's had tests done for low drive before. There's some kind of chemical connection between us. I know the sex won't last forever, but it's hard to walk away from something I've been missing for the past 10 years. I can't tell if I miss #1 or mostly just feel bad for ditching her after all this time. Bottom line, still don't know how this ends. Wish it was more clear.
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Old 10-18-2017, 10:12 AM
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gl inSite ... bottom line is ya' gotta go w/your your gut. Thanks for update, sincerely hope that it works out well for you. I'm curious, are you guys still in Ronkonkoma? bol
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