Hey Everyone

[Jimmy K]

Just wanted to stop by and say hi to all my friends here at the mall. I haven't been on in a while and don't really know when I will be back capping. I have had no ability or wanting to cap due to shit that's been going on. Basically, my girlfriend of 4 year, who I thought I was going to marry and had a ring picked out for, and who up until a few months ago wanted nothing more than to marry me decided that she wanted out of our relationship and I have been trying to pick up the pieces. This is the first time I have ever been hurt like this and it sucks, I'm sure many of you have gone through similar shit and know of which I speak. Right now I keep blaming myself for allowing the best thing that ever happened to me to slip out of my fingers and I am just trying to make it day by day. I hope that we find our way back to each other but I really don't know what is going to happen.

Anyway, I just wanted to touch base and let you all know that I am still alive and as soon as I have the desire to cap again I will be back. Just right now I can't concentrate on things and to be honest this whole situation has really had me re-evaluating things and I don't know if I even want to bet anymore, but if and when I do I will return and hopefully run wild again. I hope everyone is doing well and that your bets are cashing and I apologize for the long winded message, just needed to get it out. Hope to see you guys and girls soon....

Jimmy K

[Gobbler's Knob]

Stay strong Jimmy

[Keith]

Be well Jimmy.

[rda21]

Just take care of your nose and your chin jimmy k. Keep your nose clean and your chin up, and all will work out fine. Stay upbeat.

[Randle Pat McMurphy]

Hang in there, Jimmy. I know many think it is just a cliche, but all things happen for a reason. We may not know what it always is at the time and I know it doesnt make the pain any less, but sometimes you just have to believe. If it is meant to be, it will happen.

[westcoastO]

hey jimmy keep your head up. just went through something similar although not quite to this degree and its rough. lol actually even made a thread about it too. best thing in the world are your friends right now though man. stay strong and it will get better.

[dhunter]

hope things turn around for you jim

[Chris46139]

This thread is very new and you're already getting some good advice Jimmy. Best thing you can do is try to keep a positve attitude the best you can. Don't want to fall too far, you know. Plus that will either help you get her back, or help you land another one. My wife and I broke up for a while right before we got engaged and I can tell you it turned out very well for both of us, so keep your head up bro and try to stay positive thats the best advice I can give you right now. Also good to see the Hulkster back around these parts

[Lukester]

I don't know who's fault it is or the reason as to why. We often blame the others, but that is a mirror image to ourselves.

If u can fix the problem and get back together, then she's for u. If u just rush together to appease the pain without fixing the problem, then u are just postponing the flare-up to another date. Next time could be worse.

A separation or divorce does not happen spontaneously...it is an accumulation of unsolved problems and unwillingness to understand.

I'm not emotional here, just an objective viewer.

Your choice on what u want to do from here.

[jaypasco]

what a bad time rright now to be a hulkamaniac

[cman]

Hang in there bro...

wde

[Gerk]

I think we've alot of us of had to deal with situations with loss from our girlfriends, wives etc.

I could write a book, Had a girl I was dating 5 years ago drop dead with no warning of a congenital defect no one knew about at the age of 32.

Loss is never easy and if you don't get back together, as the old saying goes, Time heals all wounds. Not easy to believe right now, but it's true

Hang in there, things will get better

[Chicago RED]

Hey jimmy good to hear from you. Remember everything happens for a reason, just let everything take its course. Just some advice you can take it or leave it. The worst thing you can do at this point is blame yourself. All women that want out always will build the blame up on you, to make you think it is your fault. As long as you be the person you are in a relationship you did nothing wrong.

The reasons she left can be way diffrent from the reasons she told you. I know nothing that anyone says at this point is really going to help that much. Just keep your head up man, GL.

[pwherr]

Do you really want her back?If she did this now who's to say she won't do it again?I know it is rough but you need to move on and just be happy she didn't do this after 10 years of marriage and a couple of kids.My first wife burned me bad and I wouldn't have my wife now who is 1million times the person my ex was if I would have begged her back.Shit happens for a reason.

[TCD619]

Good hearing from you. Stay strong/positive!